These are the words of a dynamic black wife in a strong black marriage of 10 years. My husband and I have experienced the ups and downs and trials and tribulations that many couples face. Depression, anxiety, unemployment, death, financial pressures and health issues cannot break us. This site serves as a place of inspiration, advice, humor, entertainment and honest venting for strong black relationships. We are not perfect in any shape or form and don’t seek out to be. Every relationship is beautifully flawed in some way. We love all healthy marriages. However, we aim to keep the black family unit strong and thus learn how to hack the black marriage. Enjoy!